Dear Kelly, I've been married for 18 years and my husband and I stopped having sex over two years ago. At first I thought he must be cheating but when I confronted him about my suspicions he denied it. I just couldn't understand how any man could go without sex so I figured he was getting it somewhere else. However, because I'm dealing with peri-menopause I'm not all that interested in it either but I feel like we need to stay close in order to stay married. What should I do?