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Daily Dilemma- Completely Over It

Kelly,

I just found out that an ex of mine is moving to Charlotte in order to get another chance with me.  Even worse, he's bought a place down the road from my house.  We broke up over a year ago and I even changed my phone number and deleted my Facebook account in order to prevent him from contacting me.  Now I find out through a mutual friend that he found a job, a home, and will be here in a week.  Obviously, I consider us to be done but he hasn't yet taken the hint.  Now what do I do?

Sincerely,

Completely Over It

 

Dear C.O.I.,

If your ex hasn't been violent or making threats towards you then I don't think there's a thing you can do about him moving into your neighborhood.  It's a free country and he's allowed to live and work where he chooses.  However, once he's here, if you find him following you around or trespassing on your property then you'll have grounds for calling the police and filing a report against him.  For now, though, the only thing you can do is live your life and hope he stays away from you.

Keep me posted,

Kelly McKay

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