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Kelly,

 My husband has a tendency to enjoy things that are female oriented.  For example:  his latest obsessions are the "50 Shades Of Grey" series.  Before that, all things Twilight.  He loves getting mani/pedis and spends more time in the bathroom getting read than me.  We've only been together for a couple of years and I'm beginning to wonder if I can stay married to a man who's more of a woman than I am.  Do you think I married a gay man who's in the closet?

 

Sincerely,

 

Starting To Wonder

 

Dear Starting,

 

It is a bit odd that your husband would admit to enjoying girlie past times, but getting a manicure and pedicure, and reading smutty books and watching vampire movies doesn't make a person gay.  That being said, if you're turned off because he's more of a woman than you are then you need to do some soul searching to figure out why you married him in the first place.  I can't imagine he's suddenly become a metrosexual, which means he was that way when you were dating but you chose to ignore it.  You can't judge him for being who he is, nor can you change him, so maybe some counseling is in order so you can figure out why your feelings for him have changed.

 

Keep me posted,

 

Kelly McKay

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